Thursday, September 06, 2007

Some Things Never Change Part Two

My sister finally spoke to me during the whole wake/funeral service for Nana. Actually, I started talking to her. However, she did not apologize and she never even asked about anything medical that was going on or had gone on with me. No "How are you feeling?" or "Whats happening with you right now?" I told my Mom that if Nana didnt die then she would still not be speaking to me at all. She had no choice in the matter and also my Mom threatened to throw her out of the house if she didnt "Cut out this behavior". So, I dont think that she intended to speak to me at all and has gotten away with her nasty actions YET again. My Mom seems to think that she has turned over a new leaf. I asked her how she would know that without a single word from my sister about the situation and she just says, "I just know". She doesnt have a good track record when it comes to putting her faith in my sister so I dont think shes right. Now, if my sister told my Mom or me that she was sorry then I would say maybe but that didnt even happen. She didnt mention a word about me or this situation to my Mom. A hypothosis is an educated guess based on fact and I wouldnt call my Mom's theory a hypothosis because she's basing it on nothing, no facts. The funny thing is that in the heat of the moment the other day my husbands anger got a hold of him and he said something that he later apologized to my sister for. It was a well deserved statment but it shouldnt have been said. You cant blame him though. When it happened my parents jumped down his throat like a violent attack dog. Then later my Dad said some really mean and nasty about him and it really upset him. He said it was like he (my husband) was always looking for a pat on the back. NOT. He must be smoking crack to think something as stupid as that because my husband has helped many people over his lifetime and not because he wants a "pat on the back". Its because he's a good person and wants to help. My father forgets all the things he did for my grandmother and that she lived 2 years that she really wasnt supposed to due to the wonderful and caring Dr's my husband found for my her. That crap pisses me off because he also helped my Dad many times with medical stuff getting him Lipitor for free and so many things I cant possibly list them all here. The more I hear the less I like my father and I cant understand why my Mom doesnt get it. She knows my husband is a good person but she and my Dad jumped down his throat for cursing my sister knowing full well that she had no intention of saying she was sorry. Later, after my husband apologized to her, she (my sister) said that she couldnt say she was sorry because there was "to many people around, too much going on" and yadda, yadda, yadda, ALL A LOAD OF BULL SHIT. You know why its bull shit? Well because its been a while since she said this crap and she has had so many chances to say she was sorry and hasnt. WHY? I can be nice and bite my tongue but whats right is right and I am still hurt and upset that my own sister did what she did to me. She rather take care of her boyfriends Dad than even call her sister to see if I am still alive. I had surgery in June and she never even asked about it or how I was??? Its just crazy. My parents make me so mad because its like she got another chance and she didnt do anything to deserve it! No apology, nothing! I am the one that spoke to her! My husband apologized for saying something that was well deserved and he's the one that got chastized!! Yeah, its hard to believe right. I have to stop now.

Here's some more jewelry for your viewing pleasure. If you are interested just drop me a comment or e-mail because its all for sale. The Autumn leaves necklace sold to a very nice young lady who fell in love with them and I thank her again for purchasing them from me.

Pisces
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Paua Shell
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Feeding Hummingbirds
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Glass Bead bracelet
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Dichroic Glass Pendant
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Unakite & Howlite Necklace
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Mother Of Pearl Choker
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Pressed Glass Leaves with Swarovski Crystals
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Assorted Memory Wire Necklaces
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Lampwork Flower Necklace
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Dichroic Glass and Sterling Sliver Necklace
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Glass Flower Necklace
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Turquoise Memory Wire Bracelet
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First Day of School (I had to throw this in the middle just to be interesting)
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Rose Quartz Necklace & Earings (this picture doesnt do this gorgeous necklace justice! The Swarovski crystals make it really sparkle)
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Green Leaf Necklace
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Millifiori Set
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Red Pearl (2 strand necklace)
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Chandeliers
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Snowflake Obsidian
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Brownstone Memory Wire Necklace
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Sean the Sheep Necklace & Earings (How can a knitter not love this?)
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Nicky, the kitten at 4 months old
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Speaking of knitting, I joined my 3rd sock club the other day! This club has to be the best because its being done by my LYS, Knitting Central and its a full year of socks!!! I added the link in my sidebar. I also happen to be lucky enough to find New Pathways for Sock Knitters by Cat Bordhi. Its an unbelievable book and I definitely have to READ it before trying anything. Cat suggests that you knit the 2 little socks before doing any of the other socks in the book. I made some stitch markers to use on them with some plastic letter beads, A, B, C, D and E. Woolgirl's sock club will be shipping out their first shippment anyday now. It seems I have some catch up knitting to do when it comes to socks. I was also able to postpone the STARRY NIGHT SHAWL CLASS until November which is great because I have to catch up there also.

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